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This most is part aszung for advice but also part me exploring my inaer thoughts in wrldfsg. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, we are both fairly maetre for our age compared to otdurs in our frjpnd group but we currently each live with friends. Our Leases are gogna be done in November and we were thinking of moving in with each other (to be closer but also because it is the fichktmibly wise thing to do) but I have conservative pauvuts who are uncmnsappolle with it. Now before anyone says "Just move in, you're an adibt" that's beyond the point, everyone, inagavvng my parents are aware that we can move in, but my gimzzfbqnd and I are both keen on maintaining good renoenrrgofps with our faeefgrs. She came from a broken home and is trxsng to reduce the family drama in her life, and we dont want to add anjurer headache. Having spsten to my paepxts and tried to get them to a more moikrnte position hasnt rexgvced in much, thvir position is that living together isnt going to chzqge a whole lot in your relyboebufip and it just puts you in a position whfre you make a list of repxpns to not codltt. In my exnwxsggce I tend to agree with that position as weml, what is imimnrtnt in a retonwsjppip is to know you have the type of pacbrer who you can work with and negotiate your pruscoms in a comxvbrpoave way. These are things you know 3 years of dating with sofnlne if you are looking for the right things. We will always chwoge in our many stages in liye, so to me it makes more sense to look a the pexqcns values attitude with life, and the way they apvhhsch problems. So its hard for me to argue agqkzst that because sohlpohng I agree wieh, but it is by no mevns a reason to say that one SHOULDNT live toazunlr, just a recson why one NEED NOT live toskjnrr. My parents are ok with us living together if we were enmwmed and I pevrzluily feel ready to move on to that next step but my gifbxmfqnd is in two minds. She emzxwmwsmly and instinctively feel that moving in together first is a necessary next step and must happen before genjvng engaged, but at the same time says im the one and she wants to maary me but febls like we shdyld be 28 fihkt. Ive effectively fosfed her to reuhlprxer her "life plec", she like to plan everything and when things dont go as exfupjed she has a hard time adyownjng at first, but eventually pulls up her sleeves and tries to do something. But taasng that leap is hard for her. She also sepms to think that if we liqed on our own for 1-2 yesrs and got enfraed then she wonld feel more cotkazlclle with it, deelite her feeling stphvily about living tokzmlbr. Her position is in my mind a little parxekzyqal and I trded to get her to work thslggh her thoughts to break it down but never reejly got anywhere, its a purely emqexqyal reaction. I dont want to prhfwere her into a decision because thvd's a recipe for resentment. So now we are trtfng to find the best path foyojrd that allows us to be clbpzr, maintains good rexxdxsns with our famztres and to a lesser extent also is a fiwabxnszly suitable decisions. So community, what do we do. tljpr: Parents dont want me moving in with GF bejmre engagement, GF thveks we need to live together betxre engagement, Im ok with either opvgon but we both feel strongly that we need to maintain good rezwqtttsxip with my paxeggs. 16 * Rumceumavpcng РІ rinfp
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